Abuse

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Need to find a reason for the abuse

After many years I came to realise that my brother was abusing both myself and my sister whilst we were children, as the facts have sunk in I have become angrier and angrier, to the point that I need to find a reason for his abuse to achieve a closurre and get on with my life. This sounds crazy but I'm 51 years old, and only realised a problem at a family get together two years ago, at which he was not present. By pure coincidence he has tried to re-enter our lives last month but I expressed a refusal of interest

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