Blain Nelson's Abuse Pages Blain Nelson A very comprehensive and informative site! It was created by a former abuser who has included his story and personal views on abuse as well as his wife's story. It contains information for both the victim and the abuser as well as friends and family members. This is a great site for those interested in reading first-hand accounts. The site has not been updated for many years, but the information that remains is still very helpful.